Сверхчувствительный родитель. Как воспитать детей и сохранить себя в переполненном переживаниями мире - Элейн Эйрон

Mirrors in the brain: How our minds share actions and emotions. Oxford University Press, USA, 2008.

Baumeister, Roy F., Kathleen D. Vohs, C. Nathan De Wall, and Liqing Zhang. “How emotion shapes behavior: Feedback, anticipation, and reflection, rather than direct causation.” Personality and social psychology review 11, no. 2 (2007): 167–203.

Баумайстер известен радикально новым взглядом на многие темы. В данном случае он не согласился с общепринятым мнением, что эмоции влияют на рациональное мышление, когда человек принимает решение или переходит к действию. Он считает, что главным образом эмоции испытывают после события, что позволяет запомнить происходящее и сделать выводы, чтобы в конечном счете стать более рациональными.

Baumeister et al., 2007.

Jagiellowicz et al., 2010.

Gerstenberg, Friederike XR. “Sensory-processing sensitivity predicts performance on a visual search task followed by an increase in perceived stress.” Personality and Individual Differences 53, no. 4 (2012): 496–500.

Wolf et al., 2008.

Leake, Rosemary D., Richard E. Weitzman, Theodore H. Glatz, and Delbert A. Fisher. “Plasma oxytocin concentrations in men, non-pregnant women, and pregnant women before and during spontaneous labor.” The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism 53, no. 4 (1981): 730–733.

Глава 2. КАК СПРАВИТЬСЯ С ЭМОЦИОНАЛЬНОЙ ПЕРЕГРУЗКОЙ. ЗАБОТА О СЕБЕ И ПОНИМАНИЕ СВОИХ ОСОБЕННОСТЕЙ

Wachs, Theodore D. “Relation of maternal personality to perceptions of environmental chaos in the home.” Journal of Environmental Psychology 34 (2013): 1–9.

Hanson, B. Rick, Jan Hanson, and Ricki Pollycove. Mother Nurture: A Mother’s Guide to Health in Body, Mind, and Intimate Relationships. NewYork: Penguin Books, 2002.

Hanson et al., 2002.

Cohen, Sheldon, Denise Janicki-Deverts, Ronald B. Turner, and William J. Doyle. “Does hugging provide stress-buffering social support? A study of susceptibility to upper respiratory infection and illness.” Psychological science 26, no. 2 (2015): 135–147.

Глава 3. ПОЛУЧИТЬ ПОМОЩЬ. ДА, ОНА ВАМ НУЖНА

Bass, Brenda L., Adam B. Butler, Joseph G. Grzywacz, and Kirsten D. Linney. “Do job demands undermine parenting? A daily analysis of spillover and crossover effects.” Family Relations 58, no. 2 (2009): 201–215.

Carter, Bernie. “Parenting: A glut of information.” (2007): 82–84.

Kurcinka, MarySheedy. Raising Your Spirited Child. HarperCollins, 1999.

Pluess, Michael, and Jay Belsky. “Differential susceptibility to rearing experience: The case of childcare.” Journal of child psychology and psychiatry 50, no. 4 (2009): 396–404.

Глава 4. ГЛУБИНА ОБРАБОТКИ ИНФОРМАЦИИ. КАК ПРИНИМАТЬ РЕШЕНИЯ: ОТ ПОКУПКИ ПОЛЕЗНОГО ХЛЕБА ДО ВЫБОРА ЖИЗНЕННОГО ПУТИ

Patterson, C. Mark, and Joseph P. Newman. “Reectivity and learning from aversive events: Toward a psychological mechanism for the syndromes of disinhibition.” Psychological review 100, no. 4 (1993): 716.

Научная работа на тему принятия решений: Vohs, Kathleen D., Roy F. Baumeister, Brandon J. Schmeichel, Jean M. Twenge, Noelle M. Nelson, and Dianne M. Tice. “Making choices impairs subsequent self-control: A limited-resource account of decision making, self-regulation, and active initiative.” In Self-Regulation and Self-Control, pp. 45–77. Oxfordshire, UK: Routledge, 2018.

Baumeister et al., 2007.

Borysenko, Joan Z., and Gordon Dveirin. Your Soul’s Compass. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc, 2008.

Jaeger, Barrie. Making work work for the highly sensitive person. McGraw-Hill, 2004.

Глава 5. КАК РЕГУЛИРОВАТЬ ПОВЫШЕННУЮ ЭМОЦИОНАЛЬНУЮ ВОСПРИИМЧИВОСТЬ И ПОЛУЧАТЬ ОТ НЕЕ УДОВОЛЬСТВИЕ

Levinson, Harry. “A second career: The possible dream.” Harvard Business Review 61, no. 3 (1983): 122–129.

Brindle, Kimberley, Richard Moulding, Kaitlyn Bakker, and Maja Nedeljkovic. “Is the relationship between sensory processing sensitivity and negative affect mediated by emotional regulation?” Australian Journal of Psychology 67, no. 4 (2015): 214–221.

Rilke, R.M., “Go to the Limits of Your Longing,” line 10. In Macy, J., and A. Barrows. “Rilke’s Book of Hours: Love Poems to God.” (1996).

Taylor, Steven. “Anxiety sensitivity and its implications for understanding and treating PTSD.” Advances in the treatment of posttraumatic stress disorder: Cognitive-behavioral perspectives (2004): 57–66.

Fairbrother Nichole and Sheila R. Woody. “New mothers’ thoughts of harm related to the newborn.” Archives of women’s mental health 11, no. 3 (2008): 221–229.

Wolak, Janis, David Finkelhor, and Andrea J. Sedlak. “Child victims of stereotypical kidnappings known to law enforcement in 2011.” Juvenile Justice Bulletin (2016): 1–20.

Foxman, Paul. Dancing with fear: Overcoming anxiety in a world of stress and uncertainty. Lanham, Maryland: Jason Aronson, Incorporated, 1999.

Pearlstein, Teri, Margaret Howard, Amy Salisbury and Caron Zlotnick. “Postpartum depression.” American journal of obstetrics and gynecology 200, no. 4 (2009): 357–364.

Paulson James F. and Sharnail D. Bazemore. “Prenatal and postpartum depression in fathers and its association with maternal depression: a meta-analysis.” Jama 303, no. 19 (2010): 1961–1969.

Swain, James E., P. Kim, J. Spicer, S. S. Ho, Carolyn J. Dayton, A. Elmadih, and K. M. Abel. “Approaching the biology of human parental attachment: Brain imaging, oxytocin and coordinated assessments of mothers and fathers.”Brainresearch 1580 (2014): 78–101.

Swain et al., 2014.

Figueiredo Barbara and Ana Conde. “Anxiety and depression symptoms in women and men from early pregnancy to 3-MONTHS postpartum: parity differences and effects.” Journal of affective disorders 132, no. 1–2 (2011): 146–157.

Rosenberg, Marshall. Nonviolent communication: A language of life: Life-changing tools for healthy relationships. Encinitas, CA: Puddle Dancer Press, 2015.

Potegal, Michael, Michael R. Kosorok, and Richard J. Davidson. “Temper tantrums in young children: 2. Tantrum duration and temporal organization.” Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics 24, no. 3 (2003): 148–154.

Solter Aletha Jauch. Tears and tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. Goleta, CA: Shining Star Press, 1998.

Глава 7. ЧУВСТВИТЕЛЬНЫЕ РОДИТЕЛИ И ИХ ПАРТНЕРЫ. СПОРНЫЕ ВОПРОСЫ И НЕКОТОРЫЕ ИНСТРУМЕНТЫ

Luhmann, Maike, Wilhelm Hofmann, Michael Eid, and Richard E. Lucas. “Subjective well-being and adaptation to life events: a meta-analysis.” Journal of personality and social psychology 102, no. 3 (2012): 592.

В результате этого подробного изложения исследований можно сделать вывод: качество отношений в среднем страдает после рождения ребенка, в то время как общая удовлетворенность жизнью не снижается.

В другой работе (Tucker, Paula, and Arthur Aron. “Passionate love and marital satisfaction at key transition points in the family life cycle.” Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 12, no. 2 [1993]: 135–147) уточнили: хотя качество супружеской жизни падает, есть большое различие в вариациях после появления ребенка – у кого-то идет вверх, а у кого-то вниз и вверх,