Великие дерзания - Брене Браун

В качестве примера я могла бы привести различные концепции, которые представлены мной в этой книге (например, защита, отслеживание разрыва, разрушительные инновации и т. д.). Когда я проверяю соответствие теории полученным результатам, то обычно спрашиваю: «Соответствуют ли эти концепции данным? Они значимы? Прорабатывают ли они исходные данные?» Если ответ такой: «Да, я считаю, что они точно отражают то, что было получено из данных», то, значит, теория верна. Как и в случае с теорией стыдоустойчивости, мои коллеги в области количественного исследования непременно испытают мои теории по искренности и уязвимости. Мы и в дальнейшем будем продолжать процесс исследования.

Когда я оглядываюсь назад, то лишний раз убеждаюсь в глубокой истине цитаты, которой я поделилась в начале этой главы. Действительно, нет иного пути, кроме «великих дерзаний». Благодаря тому, что участники исследования имели смелость поделиться своими историями, опытом и мудростью, я проложила путь, который определил мою карьеру и мою жизнь. Когда я впервые поняла важность уязвимости и искренней жизни, я оказалась в плену данных собственного исследования. Теперь я знаю, что это меня спасло.

Список литературы

1 Brené Brown, Connections: A 12-Session Psychoeducational Shame-Resilience Curriculum (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 2009); Brené Brown, I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power (New York: Penguin / Gotham Books, 2007); Brené Brown, “Shame Resilience Theory,” in Contem– porary Human Behavior Theory: A Critical Perspective for Social Work, rev. ed., ed. Susan P. Robbins, Pranab Chatterjee, and Edward R. Canda (Boston: Allyn and Bacon, 2007); Brené Brown, “Shame Resilience Theory: A Grounded Theory Study on Women and Shame,” Families in Society 87, no. 1 (2006): 43–52.

2 Brown, B. (2010). The gifts of imperfection: Letting go of who we think we should be and embracing who we are. Center City: Hazelden.

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14 For the most comprehensive review of the shame and guilt literature see Shame and Guilt by June Price Tangney and Ronda L. Dearing (New York: Guilford Press, 2002) /

15 The following books and articles explore the relationships between shame and various outcomes:

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Scheff, T. (2003). Shame in self and society. Symbolic Interaction, 26, 239–262.

Stuewig, J., Tangney, J. P., Mashek, D., Forkner, P., & Dearing, R. (2009). The moral emotions, alcohol dependence, and HIV risk behavior in an incarcerated sample. Substance Use and Misuse, 44, 449–471.

Talbot, N. (1995). Unearthing shame is the supervisory experience. American Journal of Psychotherapy, 49, 338–349.

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Tangney, J. P., and Dearing, R. (2002). Shame and guilt. New York: Guilford.

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19 James Pennebaker’s work:

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